Just WHO Did You Hire?
Over the years we have come a cross a few wedding vendors who over-book. Who knows the reason - well, we know the reason (money), but sometimes it may be an oversight.
However, there are some out there who over-book on purpose, and hire other people to do the work. If that is okay with you, great. This happens a lot with DJ's, but we've seen it happen with photographers as well. We always remember one wedding in particular. The bride and groom got to the reception to find out that their DJ had hired a couple of high school kids to do the work. These kids were nice, but they didn't know what they were doing. They didn't have the song-list that the bride and groom had picked out. It was a mess and the bride and groom were not very happy.
So when you book your photographer or videographer, or DJ, or whatever - make sure they tell you WHO will actually be doing the work. That way you won't be blindsided on your wedding day!
Jim & Stephanie Wilkerson
Wedding Photo Poll!
Take a look through the 10 wedding photos below and decide which is your favorite, then vote in the survey below. One lucky voter will win a FREE headshot portrait by Wilkerson Studios! The couple that gets the most votes will win a FREE 8x10 from Wilkerson Studios!
This poll will be up until February 1, 2015. Good Luck!
If you're getting married in 2015, we know you're excited. You're looking forward to finishing the wedding planning, seeing your family and friends come together, and finally tying the knot with the one you love.
But in the end, are photos really worth it? We put so much value in them - spend thousands of dollars on them, hang them on the wall, and then look at them from time to time. Is that worth it? Sure it is. It's your family you're talking about, right? They're worth every penny.
But what about the actual relationship? In the hundreds of weddings we have shot over the years, we are sad to say that some of them have ended in divorce. Not 50% like the stats say - actually much less. To our knowledge only about 4 or 5 couples have parted ways, and although that sounds good in comparison to worldly statistics, it's never a good thing. It breaks our hearts.
But it also breaks God's heart. God takes our commitment in marriage seriously. He knows that it's not an easy endeavor. In fact, the Apostle Paul advises us to stay single unless we see that we cannot control ourselves. (1 Corinthians 7)
Hollywood likes to paint a warm and fuzzy picture of marriage, but the fact is, marriage is a lot of work. Through the ups and downs, both people have to sacrifice and learn to become more and more unselfish. That's not an easy thing to do. But it's worth it. Then again, anything really great in life takes effort and hard work.
So are the photos worth it? Yes. But worth much, much more than the pictures, the video, the cake and the party, the RELATIONSHIP trumps them all. Without the relationship, everything else means nothing.
So we encourage and challenge all of you married couples out there, and soon to be brides and grooms, to put forth your greatest effort in 2015, to love each other, to sacrifice for each other, to put ourselves last, and be ready to be there when the other one falls or stumbles. In the end, it's the relationships that last forever. Not the photos.
Jim & Stephanie
Jim & Stephanie Wilkerson
The husband & wife team who loves to capture memories.